The Love Hurts Theory
(Truth Thursday on a Friday: Here’s what I really want to say.. *ehem*)
Love has been defined countless of ways, and to add my own version is a fear I guess I’ll never overcome. I mean, take it from a girl who thinks that “love sucks” is probably the most profound thing she’s ever blogged about love. Get the picture?
So I’m simply quoting a classic, because I actually think it’s true: Love hurts. No matter how you look at it, it hurts, and if it doesn’t for you yet, it soon will.
I mean, look:
Must remain superhero.
Must choose social reputation.
![](http://www.guitarchic.net/wp-content/uploads/2008/08/love-actually-to-me-you-are-perfect.jpg "\")
Must choose loyalty.
Must remain friend.
Fine, the last part is just ME. There’s no romance between Harry and Hermione, I know right, but oh how I wish there is! :)
And fine, it’s no fair that I used fictional characters to prove my point. Then again, this needs no exhibits. Love does hurt. Love without pain, or sacrifice, is not love at all. Ultimately, when it starts to hurt, that’s when love is most real. Correct me if I’m wrong, I’m not an expert at this. But with love, IMHO, ending up together is (probably) not the most important thing.
So hey, it’s me, love blogging over coffee break, and loving the bittersweet taste of my coffee that has gone cold.
(In fairness, blogging about love is more enjoyable to me than bloggging about food. Then again, it must be the rain.)
Also, you think I should start working on my bitterness?
normi said,
August 1, 2008 @ 4:39 pm
pft on the examples above. you HIT home. Hay.
*hugtayoriz*
oh why does it have to hurt so much?
mae said,
August 1, 2008 @ 4:41 pm
yes. :) oh looks who’s talking :P
Coy said,
August 1, 2008 @ 5:05 pm
“Also, you think I should start working on my bitterness?”
Join the club, we have t-shirts.
the xaris said,
August 1, 2008 @ 5:10 pm
basta ko, i love you. :)
hahaha.
x)
Camz said,
August 2, 2008 @ 8:46 am
“Also, you think I should start working on my bitterness?”
Yes, definitely. LOL kung sakit yan, may taning ka na, stage 4 na eh, haha.
It doesn’t hurt ALL the time. :) The bitter makes you appreciate the sweet. :P
riz said,
August 2, 2008 @ 12:19 pm
“oh why does it have to hurt so much?” –> ganun talaga. :p *hug*
riz said,
August 2, 2008 @ 12:21 pm
Oo na mae, oo na. Bitter na kung bitter. Blpht. (Look who’s talkinggg!! Kaw din ehh! :P)
riz said,
August 2, 2008 @ 12:22 pm
Tshirts? You have it in pink?
riz said,
August 2, 2008 @ 12:23 pm
I wuv you too xai! :) twennyythweee yaay :)
riz said,
August 2, 2008 @ 12:24 pm
Waw ha, tenks camz. I just have to look at you and Karlo and I start to be hopeful again. :)
(Kaya minsan ayaw ko kayo nakikita e. Haha)
Coy said,
August 2, 2008 @ 4:22 pm
Of course.
mae said,
August 2, 2008 @ 8:31 pm
I was saying yes. stop being bitter na (and look who’s talking lol)
Eh, I stopped being bitter na and started to feel a little hopeful :P
Kuya Kevin said,
August 2, 2008 @ 10:29 pm
Kind of reminds me of my “heartbreaks happen” post. That’s life.
Joni said,
August 3, 2008 @ 12:45 am
A huge part of me believes that too, that (romantic) love is just too good to be true. I believe two people have to work really hard to make a relationship work, realistically speaking. It’s not always “a fairy tale come true” thing like most people expect it to be. Let’s be honest noh. hehe.
Then again, let’s not totally close our doors to the possibility that happily ever after can be just around the corner. Baka masama lang kase timing minsan, but it’ll happen. It HAS to happen. :-|
Good job sa love blogging! haha. :-)
jeline said,
August 5, 2008 @ 12:50 pm
There’s no romance between Harry and Hermione, I know right, but oh how I wish there is! :)
GGNOOOOOOOOOOOOOOO! hahaha wala lang loyal fan ako ni RON-HERMIONE eh. XD
Love Hurts – Incubus
:)
jeline said,
August 5, 2008 @ 12:54 pm
oh di pala pedeng ma-embed.
“Love hurts
But sometimes it’s a good hurt
And it feels like I’m alive..”
musicshare:) listen to it nalang hehe
distantfriend said,
August 7, 2008 @ 3:51 pm
it’s like a doldrum what you’re going through.
JoanSyndrome said,
August 10, 2008 @ 9:30 pm
Love Hurts!Why does it have to hurt…
I’m a self-confessed hopeless romantic.waaah..When I was young I always firmly lay on the hopes that love is all bed of roses if you find the true one but when i grew older I realized that I should also be able to outsmart its tricky side.haha…i believe it has its good and bad side too…good hurt or bad…whatever love we have,we just have to know how to balance its meter.I’ll spare your comment page on my details on my theory though;p…Love ur blog!hope you can visit mine too some time.
Trisha said,
August 11, 2008 @ 8:02 am
“Must choose loyalty”. Bingo!
aldrin said,
August 30, 2008 @ 3:16 am
i’d say you’re in love…. *wink wink*
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